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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, probably nothing is going on. Men and women do have lunch for business reasons all the time. My own husband does it. He has female coworkers he texts from time to time. It doesn't bother me because this is totally normal behavior.

You, on the other hand, pore over his FB to the extent you notice someone new, and just because she's a woman, go stalk her page and make up your mind that she's pretty and wants your man. They meet for a business lunch, he doesn't tell you because he knows that you're a jealous nut, and you find out because OF COURSE you have to go into his phone and read his texts ON YOUR BIRTHDAY and he knows he's found out. And you blow up over a work lunch and she probably doesn't want your dude anyway. [/quote]

fyi When you post things publicly it's not stalking lol.  From hardly knowing the woman to finding texts they went out isn't innocent.  Then he goes to the lengths to delete them is just ignoring the warning signs.

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Ok if you want to quibble with the word "stalking" that's fine. But she doesn't know that woman and yet she still pored over her FB profile and her pictures and statuses because she... tangentially knows OP's boyfriend. Meanwhile, she probably wants nothing to do with this guy who has kids with an ex and a girlfriend. Seriously. Now OP blew up her relationship over a girl who probably gives 0% thought to OP's boyfriend outside of their rare work interactions. [/quote]
Not PP you are responding to but I agree with her completely. And it doesn't matter if the woman wants OP's boyfriend or not- she didn't blow her relationship up because of her, she blew it up because he's acting shady and suspicious and lying. And that's a good reason to blow something up because what's the alternative- waiting around until he crushes on a woman who likes him back? No.[/quote]

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