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Well, she doesn't drink, so she's not an alcoholic.  She didn't "build up a fortune" - she has a small house that she and FIL owned when they were first married that she currently lives in, an empty lot that she inherited from her mother many years ago, and had a small condo that she lived in after the divorce.  Sold the condo and gave that money away.  Signed over the house and the lot, without consideration to the tax consequences.  Her adult kids recieve her nasty email messages periodically.  They're used to her - they suffer silently through her rages.  There is no dd.  I'm her DIL who is fine with giving her money, because my sane, old-school, blue-collar, work hard, save hard parents left me with money when they died.  Anyone else would have cut her off for her pissy behaviour and[b] bullshit she spewed over my father's funeral.[/b]   She didn't "stay in a job" until the kids were grown.  She's moved around from job to job because after a couple of years she ends up in a catfight with somebody and has to move on.  She lives back in her hometown, and no longer sees her cousins or any of the people she grew up with because she finally lost her ability to hold it together in front of them and raged herself out of those friendships.

But go ahead, you tell me what her problems are. [/quote]

Classic BPD   :) [/quote]

Thanks, pp. You made me lol :).  My father was a special person, and it really angered me that she insisted on coming and of course turned it into an episode that colors my memory of the day.  Its been a few years so I'm mostly able to put it out of my head.[/quote]

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