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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And are you a stay at home mom versus your husband who works fulltime? When i was on maternity leave, i NEVER made DH get up for the baby. He works crazy hours hes exhausted. Staying at home, i was able to catch up on sleep at nap times all week. [/quote]

Husband works reasonable hours. I get up earlier then him. I'm up with toddler every day at six. He doesn't get up til 7. Toddler sleeps 7pm to 6am. Fairly typical. But again, not really the point here.  If he didn't want to wake up he can just tell me and we can figure it out. Mad bc he holds it over my head at child's expense. [/quote]

This is a huge F-ING deal OP. if I worked and DH sat his ass at home all week and put our child on a schedule on purpose to go to bed at dinnertime and wake up at the Crack of dawn on Saturday and Sunday because HE is a morning person, but then purposefully stayed in bed till my kid was sitting in shit to make some warped point I would say YOU ARE fucked up. If you know your spouse is tired and needs sleep, why in the hell would you force him to get up at 6am on weekends??? Why not put toddler down at 8 or 8:30pm to wake up at 7am or 8am???? There I solved your whole problem YOU invented.[/quote]

Oh for fucks sake, are you on glue?

I have raised 2 children and both naturally went to bed at 7:30 in baby/toddlerhood. Read a fucking sleep book. That's when kids start to produce sleep hormones. It's science. You dummy.[/quote]

So when we have daylight savings time, what does your book of wisdom say? Pretend the clocks didn't move forward or back due to his? You sound like a loon. Kids go to bed when we put them to bed. It's easy to move bedtime ahead an hour. And, again, if OP enjoys being up at 6am on weekends while her DH is exhausted, it's sadistic to force him out of bed.[/quote]

You're a dumbass.[/quote]

Still haven't heard a real answer - do you change bedtime by one hour when we have daylight savings time changes. Yes or no? I'm finding it hard to believe a bedtime is never changed by one hour. Calling bullshit.[/quote]

Bedtimes are hard to move. Physiologically speaking and if you are suggesting she should have done so at DST then you are being a willfully obtuse nitpicker here and gas lighting the posters to make a bizarre point. Obviously the wake up time is not for the moms benefit of being a morning person since she wants to sleep in (is your reading comprehension turned on) but for the child's benefit. He is tired by 7-8 like ALL toddlers ever in the world so he gets up early. [/quote]

Working moms have to move bedtime with time changes. We can't tell our Boss it was too hard to move. This is hogwash. Move the nap time and bedtime and everybody sleeps in problem solved. Or just wallow in your 1st world non-working mommy 6am stickler kid in poopy diaper problems.[/quote]

I am very much a working mom. And your gaslighting is not working here. Keep trying. We do not move bedtimes at daylight savings. We do not move ours nor theirs. Neither should this family.

You suck so badly.[/quote]

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