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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please - leave them all alone. Husband included - no little checking in texts of Facebook posts/messages.
Just concentrate on your own life. Let them have theirs. You have no place in it.

Relationship? ! Consider counseling.[/quote]

Y'all are nuts. OP has said like five times she has no intention of contacting them or starting a relationship. She is debating whether its appropriate to sign up for a meal delivery or participate in fundraising!

It's not totally abnormal to have a weird rush of feelings when something happens to an old flame. It would be weird to turn into a stalker and show up in the NICU but OP isn't doing that! Jeez, she's just getting her feelings out and wondering if she can extend even a small gesture of solidarity (NOT through contact!). [/quote]

If it's donating $$$ to something where a wife would have to pore over records to see that it's OP donating, then yeah, donate $50 or whatever.

If it's a meal delivery, that involves contact doesn't it?

Also consider your husband's feelings, do you want to be making him watch the kids while you're off doing Great Things for your ex? [/quote]

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