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He asked about going to dinner and wanted to know when I would be *free* and I told him starting in a few days (traveling for work). All he said was sounds good. I may be overrracting here but that really put a bad tatse in my mouth. [/quote]

Why? How did you expect him to react/to say? Seems like a perfectly reasonable response to me. [/quote]

To actually say how about *insert day*?

See my issue is I can't decide if this guy is just playing games or he's just not very assertive (either one I dislike)
For example: 
He'll say I want to see you and ask if the weekend is good for me. I'll tell him the weekend is good but when the weekend comes he'll skirt around it. He'll ask what my plans are, when I'll be done, *then* he'll say I want to see you even though I already said I was good with seeing him. Or ask me where I'm at becsuse he wants to know if I'm out and about instsad if jusr saying hey are you free I want to see you.

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You should have put all this in your OP.  Just don't plan on seeing him, since it's casual, and stay on the market.[/quote]

Thanks.  To be honest that's what I had been doing.  He asks almost weekly to see me and usually I have something come up on my end but still the lack of planning is just something I don't like. [/quote]

So he has been inquiring about your availability for several weeks but doesn't follow up once he has the information? This is easy, there is another woman out there. He is casually dating or thinking about ending a relationship or something. This non-committal behavior screams other chick [/quote]

No. OP has already rejected him a few times. As a guy I would read this as she has another guy and wants to see what her options will be in a few days. I would think she is lying about traveling(especially after the other rejections)...just stringing me a long. If the other guy is busy or she has nothing else to do, she may be free. This guy is no player, just a sucker with no self esteem. He should have ghosted a few rejections back. She is clearly not in to him. That said, I doubt he will call back...he just ghosted.[/quote]

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