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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are pissed off at him because you can't control him.  I hope that you do not do what you are planning as you as to do will end up in a horrendous mess.  Never bother trouble until trouble bothers you.[/quote]

See I completely disagree. OP is really too easy on him. Not having a formal custody arrangement is problematic. She should have set that up years ago when she arranged for care for her DD in the event she died. Honestly, her ex doesn't really have a leg to stand on and will likely end up paying for support and [b]NOT using whatever minimal visitation the court awards him[/b].[/quote]

Seems like the child will lose out the most here based on OP's prior statements that the visits generally go well.[/quote]

Except he doesn't actually show up! That is the issue. Op need consistency and needs to protect the child from the whims of an unreliable parent who will inevitable break that child's heart once she realizes what a flake he is. Can't you see this?!?!?[/quote]

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