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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Maybe it's an age thing. I am 34 and she is 27. Most nowadays don't have the exclusivity talk. It just progress and it's like an unspoken silence that we don't want to see others. I guess I thought that was what was happening here. We see each other 2-3 times week. I have had 14 dates with her in 2.5 months ( yes I kept count!). She has met my family and I have met hers. We have double dated with friends and everything. I was pretty confident we were exclusive. Seeing her with another man tore me up. I guess maybe she doesn't realize we are exclusive, or she doesn't feel the same as I do. I plan to call her tomorrow night.  [/quote]

Yes, they do.  You just didn't, and you paid the price.  Own it.[/quote]

Yes. Quit trying to pin it on how things are done today. You're wrong. If you liked this girl and didn't want her dating around you should have said so by now. And don't ruin it by getting whiny and possessive about the sex stuff. Grow up. You're 34. And I think the fact that you're ignoring her now and making her wait to even talk you're risking it. If it were me I'd feel like you're trying to punish me and I'd start thinking that maybe you aren't someone I want to be exclusive with. Heartbroken? Geeze. [/quote]

+1.  Women get treated like their crazy if they try and "tie a dude down" with exclusivity too soon which leads to a lot of women not wanting to be the one to bring it up.  If you didn't state you wanted to be exclusive, if you didn't even bring it up as a topic of discussion, you weren't exclusive and she was free to date around.

If I were her, you ignoring me for days afterwards and not taking my calls would piss me right the hell off and I would be cutting ties with you ASAP.  [/quote]
No you would play him a long a but more...why but he is nit going anywhere....you can call him when you are bored.[/quote]

Please go back to 4chan where you belong.[/quote]

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