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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]This is hard to answer. My DH is a wonderful man, and my DS genuinely loves him. However, the level of conflict between DS and his step brother is really difficult for all of us. They just do not get along and are very different people.

Why should they get along with each other?

Just because it's more convenient for the parents?

You married the other kid's father. Your kid did not marry the other kid. [/quote]

I didn't say they had to get along.  I said it was a difficult situation.  [/quote]

A difficult situation, created by you, your ex, and your new spouse.  Not by the children.

But they are given no choice in the matter.[/quote]

What if my spouse cheats and leaves me ? I didn't have a choice ! So by that logic my kids will end up with depressed parent because I got screwed over by cheating DW and now I'm supposed to eat yet another shit sandwich and stay single until such time as they are okay with ?

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If my spouse cheats and leaves I will send the new bimbo wine and flowers for taking a cheater off my hands. Not wasting time and more years with this type of person.  I will move on and be happy that I have my kids, hopefully won't make that mistake in judgement again.  You sound like you have very low self esteem.  My kids come before any guy or his kids. I might date down the road, BUT it would have to really work with all of us.  Meaning the kids would come first.
If you can't be happy single, friends, YOUR FRICKIN KIDS, then you have bigger problems.

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