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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine your DH has struck up friendships with the staff at a neighborhood bookstore that he frequents. A lot of the staff happen to be young women.  What's your comfort level, roughly?

1. he goes to the store frequently and they chat
2. he has exchanged phone numbers and they text
3. he meets up with them socially (without you present)
4. he invites them over to your home

Or some other "level" I am not articulating here.

Where are you cool with it?  Where are you irked?  [/quote]

I'm fine with it as long as he's open about it, and as long as they are really friends, not just "friends."  Among other things, that means that I meet them.  If he doesn't want to introduce us, or they don't want to meet me, I'm not okay with that.  My husband has female friends, but I've met them all, we hang out socially together, etc.  Any woman that he was meeting up with without telling me in advance would be a problem.  [/quote]

Yep! All of this. I have male friends and he has female friends. There are no secrets so it isn't a big deal[/quote]

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