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Reply to "Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] My guess is your husband is reading things like married man sex life which tells you to be aggressive with initiations. [/quote] I had that thought as well. Aggressive initiations are fine when there is some underlying attraction. Women, more than men, have responsive (as opposed to spontaneous) desire. Aggressive initiations give her something to respond to. But, if the underlying attraction isn't there, then aggressive initiation ends up being worse for the relationship than passively doing nothing. You're not having sex either way, but if you're just an asexual guy who does a lot of chores, she can overlook how not into you she is. [/quote]
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