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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you can't control your husband. You can only control yourself. It sucks that he doesn't understand PPD. And I still don't know what you mean about him isolating you. But I have a mental illness myself and I still have to take responsibility for how I act when my symptoms are worse. I still apologize when I act in a hurtful way. Are you not sorry for how you acted? I'll take you at your word that you're not a bitch. So assuming you wish you he not acted so bitchily (beachside your symptoms), can you not just say that? How about this: "the postpartum months after Jack was born were the worst in my whole life. I know my illness was really hard on you as well as me. I am sorry that I said the things I said. I am sorry I behaved so badly when we fought." Saying that doesn't mean you concede that you ARE a bitch. It's just an apology without a "but". Things are shit between you guys. On so many levels. It can't hurt.[/quote]
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