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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could you be in an abusive relationship? He isolated you from a support network--that is abusive tactic 101.

Also, it sounds like he is very caught up on needing you to admit that to your core, you are a bitch. And that who are now is some sort of act. Again, that is something an abusive person does.

I would ask him, "why is it so important to you that you see my core personality as a bitch?" I think it will allow him to justify some of his behavior.  'Well I can do/say X because she is really just a bitch deep down inside'

Do you want to stay married to someone who is so set on casting you as a bitch? It would be hard for me to be loving to someone who needs to see me in such an awful light. [/quote]

Well, in my other post about our marriage (which I linked to), everyone told me he was abusive and I needed to get out and take the baby with me.  Everyone's ignoring that though, and calling me a bitch now, so who knows.

Your question ""why is it so important to you that you see my core personality as a bitch?" is exactly what bothers me about this whole thing do.  I do think it's because it justifies the way he used to treat me.

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