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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is low drive.  Now I am too!  I fought for years for our sex life.  Now I've given up and I have little interest in having sex with him once a week on his schedule only.  He's drilled it into me that I can't rely on him for my sexual needs.  Finding out he had an affair was a slap in the face.  [/quote]

We're not there yet but I am afraid this is where DH and I will be in a few years (I don't think he'll have an affair although anything is possible).  He's low drive but on the rare occasions he wants sex, it has to be entirely on his schedule, exactly when he wants it and if I don't jump at the chance to do it right then regardless of how I'm feeling, then it's entirely my fault that we didn't have sex that day/week/whatever.

I used to think I was a high drive person but I can feel my drive dying day by day.  Soon it'll be gone then we'll both just be celibate life partners.[/quote]

You'll eventually remove him from the sexual part of you.  You'll start to think he's a loser sexually.

The behavior he shows when he doesn't get any on the rare occasion he puts out shows how selfish he is.

My husband is low drive and will do things like pull out his penis and show it to me (like when watching tv) and then act surprised I don't want to do it.  [/quote]

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