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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it really matters whether OP is hormonal and exhausted - she most likely is, but that doesn't mean she needs to put up with intrusive, annoying behavior. And the best of intentions can still lead to intrusive, annoying behavior.

And I don't understand why OP can't be selfish right now. If there's ever a time in a woman's life when she deserves a break from the usual demands of smile, play nice, be agreeable, sacrifice your needs/wants for others, etc., this is it. 
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Amen. This is one of the most vulnerable moments for you, and while you shouldn't bar MIL from the baby, you have every right to get more time to just your family. And I don't agree with the PPs who say your mom and MIL must get the exact same amount of visiting time to keep it "fair". It sounds like your mom is actually helpful and doesn't monopolize your baby. It'd obviously important to maintain a good relationship with your husband's family, but I really think you get a pass now on having to entertain them regularly. A tough delivery and surgery followed by several hospital visits is no joke. The in-laws live 10 minutes away and they're going to get to see your baby plenty. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your baby first.[/quote]

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