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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hell no you are wayyy too young with too many options![/quote]

This.  Because as a PP mentioned best case is he is taking care of his responsibilities and juggling child support, 3 different visitation scheduled, 3 different co-parenting relationship having teenagers (which typically is the toughest years for parents other than sheer work of having a toddler).  If you end up having kids with him, those are your kids half siblings, and in some way either directly or indirectly you will be involved in supporting your step-kids.  Worst case he isn't taking care of his repsonsibilities and he would be the same way with you and any children you may have.

As far as feeling bad, don't.  Guys all the time don't want to date a single mom when they are 25.  With this guy by the time he is 40, his kids are all atleast 18.  He could date a 30 year old, marry her, and start a family within marriage, not unlike the guys that divorce have college age kids and start another family with a second wife.  As a woman, when you are 40, chances are you aren't marrying a 30 year old guy and having a kid where you get a chance to start over.  I'm not saying it never happens that way but there is a reason why you often see woman with much older men and not the other way around.  I think both finances and fertility ages (men vs women) play a role.
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