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Reply to "My husband left today. Tell me I'm better off without him."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your decision to leave your husband is the right one, for both you and your kids. You have been through hell and you sound like someone who will land on her feet, especially with your supportive and loving family. One piece of advice I wanted to offer as someone who chose to take the same route after struggling with a partner with mental illness -- in my case, severe ADHD and borderline personality disorder -- is to stay strong and resolute through the worst of it, which starts today. He may beg for you to take him back, threaten to commit suicide, decide that he wants primary custody of the kids, turn you into the bad parent, and other exhibit other behaviors you may not predict. Don't give in, stay focused on the goal, which is to get as much time as possible with your children, listen to your lawyer, and know that things will be better on the other side.[/quote]
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