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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really feel for all you men. I'm a DW in the same situation. I like the approach the PP had who basically said it's going to happen once a week, we'll make it fun, etc. Unless there is a serious health issue, sex one a week should be happening in a healthy marriage.

The crying thing is not ok. It seems very manipulative...either she's way too sensitive or she's in fact manipulating you from bringing this up again. This is a valid issue you have a right to discuss in an adult manner.[/quote]

I'm a DW too and DH lost interest in me sexually with my first pregnancy.  I've suggested similar things to this (i.e., every day for a week!), but basically got rejected.  I'd like to try this, but I'm afraid of that rejection too.  Even if he said yes, I've been so demoralized sexually that I don't know how to relax and enjoy it anymore.

(I've also asked him to help me pick out lingerie he would like on me, flirting/light dirty talk and such and typically get a grimace).

Ugh.  Typing it out has made me realize how hurt I am after all of this.  I wish I knew how to work through it so that sex can be fun again.[/quote]

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