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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of women want this but are afraid to say it. Look for someone nurturing and orderly who is self motivated to finish tasks.[/quote] SAH is what I wanted - DH was supportive either way. It was easy for me to be up front with my husband because in Muslim families this is more accepted. I have friends that come from a typical american christian background and they were sooo afraid to say anything. It's important you're on the SAME page before marriage. I've seen lots of secret resentment because moms wish their DH would support them to SAH. I worked as a nanny for a few years in undergrad and met so many moms like this . I don't know if I would have been so upfront about the SAHM thing unless I experienced all the resentment issues from when I nannied in my early 20s. I actually work part time from home now and it's perfect. I don't want to SAH full time, but it's really nice I can work part-time. I'd also like to add that DH is wonderful in terms of support and I am very lucky. When we first met I told him how I wasn't sure if I wanted to continue working in my field or change and his response was, "That's fine, you can be a really good housewife." hahahah this is definitely not what an american guy would say. [/quote]
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