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[quote=Anonymous]OP this is one of those things. It is a family member. Saying no will impact the relationship. I wouldn't call it tacky but it will impact the relationship. If you're ok with that great and if not great. But the reality is if one plane ticket is going to prevent you from going to the wedding AT ALL then that already says something about how you're prioritizing this. And if you ended up showing up after declining then it would feel like you just didn't want to stand up there with her. I don't think you or SS is selfish, you just have to honestly accept what declining would mean. The only way I think you come out at a relatively equal place to where you are now is if you say you can't be a bridesmaid because you can't afford the extras (which you are super sad about it) but that you and DD will DEFINITELY be there to support her. Anything else is going to send a message. [/quote]
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