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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you are in their postition you will never understand. Also, secondary infertility is not even close to the same
Thing so you really don't understand what they were going through. Move on. Be happy they are asking about your daughter now. [/quote]

Only someone guilty of similar behavior would say this.[/quote]

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Only people who haven't struggled with IF for several years would say this.

And this is why people going through IF distance themselves. Asshole friends and relatives. 
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I can't believe you mean it's okay to completely ignore the presence of a child for 4 years. Surely you both don't mean that?
My goodness, I was a widow but didn't refuse to acknowledge my friends marriages or anniversary parties.
My friend had a baby that died and she certainly asks about my children.

No one is saying they had to be involved aunts and uncles. No one. But that is a far cry from refusing to acknowledge the actual existence of a child and then suddenly ask about her 4 long years later.[/quote]

This wasn't a one time thing that happened five years ago. This has been YEARS of heartbreak for them. You have no idea how much pain they went through. Maybe their neice was born at an emotionally low time and they needed time to deal with it. But then they have been crushed again and again and again since her birth.  Never having a chance to come up for air.

IF is a serious mind fuck. 
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I understand that.
But you think it's ok to blatantly ignore a child?
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