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+1 that there are the right questions to ask.  My DH, who I met in college and was working when we married, has a JD and a Master's and is currently a SAHD that doesn't even keep up with the house or kids all that well but knows a LOT about video games and his hobbies.  He is only a SAHD because he lost his job and didn't even try to find anything else.

I work 60-80 hours a week and have to nag him to do even the most basic thing.  But for the kids, I would be out in a moment, not because he doesn't fulfill some SES need but because he is not truly a partner.  Instead of the motivated person I married, he is horribly lazy and selfish. It just isn't clear from your post whether that is true of your DH or not...[/quote]

So he checked off all your on paper boxes and now you feel deceived. I hope this serves as a valuable lessons to your fellow money grubbing broads.[/quote]

I'm money grubbing for not wanting to give a man almost 40 a video game allowance and wanting to see my kids instead of working more than 12 hours a day?  Um, no.[/quote]

I am male.  I work 10-12 hours a day.  My wife is SAHM.  She does nothing.  The child is in middle school.  I do the cooking and the cleaning.  She buys things on one day, and returns them the next; oh, and she forwads me at least 50 memes daily.  How is that different that your Hubby?[/quote]

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