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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone please let me know the best way to address mail to the family?

For instance  if sending to the family of Jane Smith and John Miller should I write:
 The Smith-Miller Family
or
  The Miller-Smith Family

I have several friends where wife kept maiden name that we send Christmas cards to and I never know if I am addressing them appropriately.  Thanks.
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The Family of Jane Smith and John Miller?

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What if the kids are Millers? Is it then Miller family and Jane Smith?

Wouldn't Miller-Smith Family mean their names are hyphenated? Would it be Miller and Smith Family? [/quote]

We go by the Miller-Smith Family (or the Smith-Miller Family, I don't think the order matters).  People don't seem to be confused at all.  And that's how I send out cards to families where the parents have different last names.  If they have kids, it's the Smith-Miller Family.  If they don't have kids, I write John Smith & Jane Miller.  [/quote]

Not everyone hyphens their name. So, to me that is just as bad as calling me by my husband's last name. Its very individual.  Our child has two last names and it is not hyphened so he can drop one later.  I hate when people hyphen his name.  If I wanted it that way, I'd do it.  Just say to the Miller Smith family.[/quote]

It's not saying that the family has a hyphenated last name; it's a way of saying that the family includes people with both last names.  I guess you could use a slash: Miller/Smith Family.  
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