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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To clarify, the time share in Colorado is ours (we want it - though of course sometimes our children and extended family are sometimes invited) and we're "reclaiming" #2's condo in SF for us. We're proud of #1 for pursuing a "noble" independent path, and of course we're happy to help him out when he needs it since he doesn't make that much money. But the paradox is he resents us for "favoring" #2 but says he doesn't actually want that same treatment for himself. Isn't that trying to have it both ways? How can we "cut off" #2 without cutting off #1 though?[/quote] Why does everyone know everyone else's business? Is #1 running to #2 when he gets money from you? How would #2 know? Of course #1 feels like you are favoring #2- you are! Maybe since all your kids live above their means, you need to just give them more every year. I feel sorry for both your kids.[/quote]
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