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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anonymouslynyrd send the pen video SO is in to your LO.[/quote]

I thought about doing just this, but couldn't think of a way to do it that wouldn't come back to me.[/quote]

Fake hotmail account. [/quote]

I agree with this 100%. This way, you're ensuring your LO has the information without making them/their SO feel awkward around you if they already knew about it/decide to continue relationship once they find out. If there's some way to request a read receipt on the email, if do it, to make sure it didn't wind up deleted as junk since it was coming from an anonymous address. Or put something in the message to give the person instructions on how to find it themselves "Dear Bob, I think this is information you should have if you don't already. Please visit the following link or Google Amber+escort+Maryland and once you do, please just reply saying "I saw it." I promise you that I will never bring this up again or in person. Signed, someone who loves you"[/quote]

Ugh. How is that LESS drama? The intrigue! Create a fake email account! Request confirmation! Swear never to speak of it in person! Should the OP come up with a code name for herself too? "Deep Throat" is already taken and would be ill advised in this case anyway, but good lord, people.

OP, I didn't think you should tell. Your friend's or brother's girlfriend saying how wonderful he is may actually just mean that she thinks he's wonderful. It may not be a scam of any kind. Her past may or may not be more complicated than you suspect it to be. In any case, if you feel like you're being righteous and protective by telling, have the decency to do it personally, and own it. Don't send your friend/brother/whatever some anonymous email that makes them feel even more snowed about this. If anything, once they know you know, you can be a source of comfort with full information if things go south. If you send an email from a burner account, your LO has to sit with that information alone. Not very loving, if you ask me.[/quote]

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