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[quote=Anonymous]i didn't read all the responses, but i think my husband would probably be considered a 'beta.'  he is good-looking but not gorgeous.  average height, good shape from running often but not a bodybuilder, etc.

the thing that i think makes him 'beta' is his shyness.  he doesn't have many friends and is a homebody.  he prefers being in to being out.  i'm more extroverted and am torn about this aspect of him - he rarely wants to do anything social, leaves it up to me to make all plans, people sometimes think he's rude, etc.

i used to date alphas - what my college friends and i called "men of the people."  they made me insecure, and they cheated.  my husband is a true partner - a great dad to our kids and more than pulls his weight at home.  he does fine at work - not stellar or a superstar, but a good job in a competitive industry.  he's good in bed and hilarious, especially to me and to his family.

is he perfect?  no, but his loyalty, kindness, and devotion to our family make him preferable to my former "alphas" any day.[/quote]

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