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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- wow, this post is an interesting Rorschach test for the projection of issues from some other marriages! Great sex and a redo last night helped patch things up. Thanks to everyone who didn't spit vitriol towards us. Marriage and kids are hard work. [/quote]

PP just plain curious now.  Did he dress up and plan the date for the redo?[/quote]

I picked out his dress clothes, he wore them without bitching. We had a pre-planned event to go to, but he took initiative to prepare kids and house for sitter without needing me to remind him and planned a place for a drink before the event. [b]This was after fighting all morning though.[/b] [/quote]

which means that getting date night right is not the issue here. Date nights are wonderful and necessary but they don't fix everything.  The huge significance you're attributing to this tells me that you know something needs fixing and you're trying to maintain the illusion that it's a simple thing such as getting date night "right," whatever that means.

Something is wrong between you and dressing him up won't help it.[/quote]

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