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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom was like this. I found out (10 years later) she has never liked my husband. I guess that was the point she found out she was stuck with him.[/quote]

My MIL doesn't like me, either.  Nor do I like her, no love lost.  But really, [b]to be that way toward an innocent child speaks FAR more about your IL's than anyone else,[/b] OP.

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What!  When did OP have the baby?!  I thought the post was about a pregnancy![/quote]

I agree with this.  They may very well love the baby when s/he's here.   But if there really are upset that the two of you are together, OP, that may be the problem.  But only you know the answer to that one.   And I'm not saying they are justified in their desires/beliefs.

But if my brother gets his borderline personality disorder girlfriend pregnant, my family will be devastated.  She's sick, mentally ill, and I feel extremely sorry for her.  I wouldn't wish her pain on anyone.  But I'd die if she had a baby.  And my brother has given up parenting the kid he already has.   I would never congratulate them on being pregnant.   I just couldn't.  [/quote]

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