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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, several questions to figure out if its you that's the problem or if it's just typical marital boredom combined with you being married to a low drive partner:

Does your DW masturbate?  Does she suggest things she wants to do in bed?  Does she seek out her own orgasms while you are together?  Does she talk about flirting with other men?  If the answer is no to most or all of the above, she is just a low drive spouse.  If she is seeking these things out, you are doing something to dampen her libido.[/quote]

As I mentioned above, I wasn't really trying to figure out if it's me that's the problem, I was interested in hearing from those on the other side of the issue in order to gain some perspective and insight.

But to answer your question, here's what I know:

- Does your DW masturbate?  
[b]She says she does on very rare occasions, not sure how often that is because she keeps that to herself[/b]

- Does she suggest things she wants to do in bed? 
[b]Never[/b]

- Does she seek out her own orgasms while you are together?  
[b]Not sure what that means[/b]

- Does she talk about flirting with other men? 
[b]Never, nor have I ever observed her flirting with other men.[/b][/quote]

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