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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is kind of strange.  If she asked you to go somewhere with you, it's not like she doesn't like your company.

Could there be other reasons?  She had to invite your ex and didn't want everyone to be uncomfortable?  She really isn't holding the event and you are mistaken?

If you aren't close to her, I would just drop it.  If you are, I would just ask her straight out.

I've had friends not mention things to me in order not to hurt my feelings - I hate that, but I understand why they are doing it.[/quote]

I wonder too.

This time of year I am guessing the event is either an Oktoberfest or a Halloween party.

If we are talking about an Oktoberfest, I can totally see the offense.

If it is a Halloween party, there might be more to it especially if they have kids who are getting older/different ages than OPs kids.  We do an annual Halloween party. In the past it was always mostly our friends with kids (mine & my husband's friends).  This year our kids are aging out of that kind of party (parents' friends) but they still want a party so we are approaching it in a different way for our now tweens and teens. The Halloween party has a different focus and the guest list consists almost entirely of their friends plus a few neighbor kids. We are moving from it being "our" party to "their" party. Some of the same adults might end up staying but it is because their kids have a real friendship with our kids, and not because we are friends with the parents.

Could it be something like this?[/quote]

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