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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I was in this situation, i would tell the wife, hands down.

And my motivation would be revenge on the husband for lying to me.

In my opinion, if that act hurt the wife, it is his own fault and not mine.

If I grant a man a mortgage believing he has a job and then foreclose on their house when he doesn't make payments, is it my fault that his wife is also impacted?

I realize it's not a perfect analogy, but I would freaking kill (figuratively) someone who lied to me like this man has lied to OP. And the collateral damage would be 100% his fault. [/quote]

I would tell simply because I would want her to know the truth about what happened from the horses mouth.  I would not want some twisted version to come out where I was portrayed as the villian in it all.  I would want her to know that he hurt me too and that I am terribly sorry for causing her pain because cheating with a married man is not my style.

And I would tell her in a private way so as not to humiliate her.  [/quote]

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