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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused. This is your dad's party (not your FIL's party) and the kids are your husband's brother's stepchildren?  Why would anyone be offended that your husband's brother's wife's kids weren't invited to your father's party? [/quote]

I'm as confused as you. As I have said before, my SIL gets very upset and cries to her DH when anyone dares to say something to her boys about their behavior OR when people exclude them (because of their behavior).

It was either not invite them and hope she has a shred of self awareness and is graceful about it. Or invite them and have a very special event for my elderly father ruined.

I'm an asshole right?[/quote]

Yes you are.[/quote]

How cute.

So OP bends over backwards to make nice in a stressful situation. To accommodate these unruly boys and worry about her nieces being bullied and her fathers birthday being ruined.

SIL says one thing to OPs face and stirs up drama with her own DH, throws a fit that her horrible children might be excluded because they cannot behave.

And you think OP is the asshole here.[/quote]

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