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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hormones in your body is such a bullshit excuse. I went through two cycles, it's not bad if you want the end result. Sounds like you don't want the baby so you're making hormones a big deal. Plus 15,000 for your kids is not critical because it's only 5k per child. That will buy them what, one or two courses?

I thought it was wonderful that we lived in an age with this IVF medical help. 
He sounds great but you're not willing to suck up one IVF cycle? Tell him one cycle and leave it to fate.
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Np here. It is not an excuse - I did ivf and developed breast cancer 2.5 yrs later. As did an acquiantance of mine. I am not sating the treatment were the direct cause of my getting cancer, but I am certain the hormones I took contributed - as apparently does conventional medicine since I was asked a host of questions about fertility treatments by each onco I saw. I hope my story is not common but neither is it unique. [/quote]

Did you mean that the cancer was discovered 2.5 years later?

I know that sounds pedantic, but cancer typically starts very small and localized and goes unnoticed for years before it reaches a point where it is detectable. Maybe the treatment accelerated the growth, but the cause is usually just genetic. [/quote]

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