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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can see how an open/alternative marriage can work for some people but both sides have to be benefitting. How does OP benefit from one? If he will do this while his kids are in utero, chances are slim he will be Dad of the Year when they arrive. He's going to take time from chasing intern pussy to come for night feeding duty? Doubt it. Op could do it on her own with his child support and be free of his bullshit.[/quote]

You are, again, ignoring the medical issue. Go back and read the original post, carefully. OP's husband is not a "sex addict". How could he be, when he is hardly having any sex, except with the intern. It is NOT the fault of OP and I really feel for her, but this is a clear case of sexual deprivation/dysfunction at home. That is why the open relationship is being proposed in this thread, because OP through no fault of her own, cannot have sex very often. So assuming the medical issue cannot be resolved, one option is to open the relationship by consent.

My gut is that OP is fake anyway, precisely because she has never revisited the medical issue. In real life, a person in her situation would recognize it as the central issue, and would have obsessed about it and have a lot to say about it in the thread.

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I didn't say he was a sex addict. However, he too chose to marry a woman with a medical condition and get her pregnant, knowing the supposed medical condition. So how exactly is he any less culpable than Op? Both made a decision to be with a person and start a family with a person who clearly was not properly matched for them. However, there are kids now and if op thinks she won't quickly have a bunch of hostility build up from staying home with twins while her DH pursues the "open" end of their relationship, she's deluding herself. Because guess what, having an open marriage doesn't mean shit when you're the one caring for twins and don't have time or energy or the medical ability to take advantage of the openness. That's basically her saying her husband can do whatever she wants while she sits at home with the kids hoping he comes home to them once in awhile. [/quote]

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