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Well, it sounds like you married and stayed with a man whose behavior has been pretty consistent for at least a decade.  And during that decade you gave him some sort of pass for continuing to behave this way (at least to some extent.)

Now you are about to have twins.

I am a mother of twins, in a solid marriage with a terrific guy whom I trust completely.  Managing twins tested our marriage more than I ever thought possible.  I cannot imagine taking that on in an already tenuous relationship.

You are in for some very rough times OP.

I suggest a lot of counseling - ASAP.  Start with you so you can figure out what you actually want.  Then consider marital counseling and individual counseling for him (if that is appropriate given what you decide and what your husband wants/is willing to do.)

You really really need to figure some things out before the babies get here - you will not have time, energy, or bandwidth to deal with anything else once they are born.

This is an emergency.  Get your life in order before those babies come.[/quote]

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