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[quote=Anonymous]Guy here. OP - you need to give her more time. I understand the need to be attracted to your wife. No matter how much you love and care for her, if she doesn't turn you on there's no sex, if there's no sex then there's no connection, resentment builds on both sides and ultimately, your kids end up with step parents. If I were you I would do everything I could to offload childcare and household chores from your wife. Make sure she gets lots of sleep and that she has time to exercise. Also, size is more determined by nutrition than exercise. Make sure you guys are BOTH (not just her) eating healthy. If you can cook, rather than eating out, it would certainly be better for both of you. Lastly, you can't make her want to change, so don't try. She has to want to be fit for herself. The only thing that can happen if you ask her to be more healthy is that she will be demoralized and resentment will build.[/quote]
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