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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't turn her down when she initiates.  She's making an effort to make you happy, so please meet her halfway.  I agree with increasing the amount of non-sexual touching in your marriage.  Sometimes it can feel like sex is something that we give to our partner, and we are already giving so much and we are so tired.  If you take the pressure off, she might get into the mood more.  Plus, even if you aren't having sex, making contact is good for both of you.  [/quote]

[b]Yes, i really agree with this. You really are asking a lot. Sex is a profession of love as much as anything else. She's offering her body to you in a generous and loving spirit. why is that unattractive? [/quote][/b]

I think its much more about her attitude when she offers her body.  It's something on her "to do" list.  If the low libido partner has genuine enthusiasm in seeing and helping their partner receive sexual pleasure, that is an assist.  If she is lying there disinterested, it is unhelpful and condescending.

The anaolgy would be a low libido male using a vibrator or fingers on his high libido wife while checking ESPN on his phone.  I doubt that would count as lovingly giving up his time and body.[/quote]

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