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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Try helping around the house a bit - do some chores without being asked, do some of your spouse's chores, help kids with homework or music lessons, come home early to help out around the house, fix something your spouse has been asking you to fix or you know needs fixing... I know if feel a lot more libidinous if I am feeling respected by a family that chips in without me asking. [/quote]

As a DH who could've written the OP's post, allow me to say, with all due respect, bullshit.

That may work for you, but I've done all that for my DW as well. The more I do .... the more I do. She's the SAHM. DS#1 is in 1st grade - so 5 days a week, full day. DS#2 is in half day pre-school 5 days a week. I drive at least one of them the majority of the time. DS#1 has evening activities 3 nights a week. I take both kids. DW goes to a class to work out 2-3 nights a week.

And, yet, the more I do to make sure she gets her "Mommy time," the less sex we have. She's on the 1-2x a month schedule, too, just like the OP's wife. I know, a couple of days before her period and 1-2 days after she'll be in the mood for one night. If I happen to be out of town for work or something intrudes, well, guess I've just missed my chance and she's perfectly fine. [/quote]
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