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[quote=Anonymous]I did not pick my sibling and his wife. They were probably insulted. So be it. I thought they are emotionally unstable and self-involved, and their marriage was full of conflict. Indeed, they recently got divorced.

I would not entrust my children to my now-single brother. I think he means well, and would love them and try to do right by them. But I feel he is really emotionally not mature and is overly self-involved. Do I feel his own children suffer from this emotional immaturity? Yes, actually, I do. I don't think he is abusive or anything but he does a lot of stuff that seems unwise to me and I wish he would get some therapy and read some freaking parenting books. Actually, lately he seems to be getting a bit better.

Hey OP, I think it's insane that your mother told you this information. What was your mother's purpose in doing this? The fact that she did so makes me think you have some dysfunctional family dynamics going on and your low self-esteem and jumping to conclusions stems from that. I wouldn't be mad at your sister; I'd use this as a wake up call and get some therapy if you haven't already. If you were happy with your life the way it is now, I don't think you'd be taking your sister's decision so personally. The fact that you are so sad over this says to me it has touched a nerve. [/quote]

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