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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no idea why people are criticizing OP. I assume it's because they don't have any male friends. But I do and I don't want to sleep with them.

The wife is abusive and crazy. "Trying to hold her family together"??? What on earth does that mean? If someone is going to cheat, you cannot stop them by micromanagement.

I would back off OP....for your own safety and sanity. Just let your friend know you will always be there for him and fade out for now.[/quote]

I agree with this.  I think that there are a lot of jealous, insecure women on this board.

I have several male friends I've had since college and since I started out in my career.  I happen to be an engineer so I am surrounded by mean, and I have made friends with some of them.

One of my male friends/colleagues was one such good friend.  I say was, because since he got married his jealous and controlling wife had told him to stop being friends with me. I didn't realize it, but he was pretty much sneaking around to have lunch with me.  Our relationship was never inappropriate, we have never done anything physical, and over the many years we've been friends, I've usually had a boyfriend.

OP sounds like she's going through something similar.  OP - there's nothing you can do in this situation.  Obviously don't seem him out now.  But eventually he will man up, dump that crazy bitch, and reach out to you - be his friend when that time comes.

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No, wife trumps female friends from the past. Always. Unless you have managed to become close personal friends with the wife, just begone with you.[/quote]

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