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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]It sounds like your husband does not agree with you on the frequency of visits being too much.[/b] You need to talk with him about this issue and come to a compromise, and then he needs to address it with his parents.[/quote]

Yes, this is a big issue and one of the reasons I can't approach my inlaws directly regarding the frequency of their visits 'like an adult would do' according to some PPs. I'm the only one that wants to limit the visits; My inlaws want to come over all the time and my husband likes having them visit. My children of course love their grandparents and want to see them too but I sense they are getting increasing sick of being stuck in the house all day with them and not doing the more varied outside activities that we do when the inlaws are not visiting us.

And yes, I am already kind of on my inlaws shit list so any comment I make to them regarding their visits would be construed as making them feel unwelcome and[b] being the bitchy non-Indian DIL. That's why I feel that I need to take a more sly, indirect approach on this issue.
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There you go again.  Turning this into a divide of races/nationality.

Maybe you're on their shit list because you are just as prejudiced towards them as you perceive them to be towards you.  They are old, they are 'foreign', but they are not stupid.

Go ahead with your 'sly' approach. 
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