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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, what I am seeing is, with the exception of 14:29 (definitely creepy), it is up to the recipient.  And, in some cases, fungible based on other factors (i.e., he is cute).   The common theme is aa disrespect for boundaries.[/quote]
That's not the only common theme. Inability to read cues is a big one, and that's not always the same as disrespecting boundaries. You seem to want to tie this into a sentence and put a bow on it it, but there are nuances here.[/quote]

No.  I was trying to understand why people do not find me creepy, and haven't for a while.  For me, it probably was more of an anger issue.  I used to be angry all the time.  Also, when I realized that people found me creepy and I did not like it.  So, in time, I changed.  I became happier.  And I made sure (for the most part) I was never in a position where the other party would not feel safe.

When I was coaching softball (U6-U10), I encouraged parents to stay around.  I made sure I was never in a position where anything could be mis-interpreted.  I like kids, but never try to interact with someone elses kid without the parent present (except when coaching).  I talk to the children like they are humans, but also tell the parents to enjoy the age.  I never try to isolate the child from the parent.  That is wrong.

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Um, yeah.  Sounds like you may need to work on several issues with yourself. Often people just get a creepy "vibe" from someone no matter what they do, because their intuition can see past the pretense.

You need to work on yourself first and fix yourself.  No amount of posturing will cover up that inner weirdness/creepiness.[/quote]

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