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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have cleaners come every two weeks and you still spend a significant amount of time cleaning then your standards are much higher than the average person. We also have biweekly cleaners and the only thing left afterwards is laundry, cooking and cleaning up after dinner. If we have guests coming over then I'll vacuum the rugs.[/quote]

OP here - I commend you if laundry, cooking, and daily cleaning up after three people, one of whom is a small child, takes you only an insignificant amount of time.  You are clearly better at this wife/mother thing.[/quote]

Well to be fair my husband cleans up after dinner. Does yours really just sit on the couch while you cook, clean up and put DD to bed?

Unlike you I don't bake and my house is probably not as clean as yours, so no I'm not a better wife or mother. However you mentioned in a previous post that when you stopped cleaning it broke your heart to see your daughter living in filth. That's hard to imagine if you have cleaners.

There isn't a lot of down time on the weekdays for us but weekends we like to go out as a family. I highly recommend going on family hikes. Put DD in a backpack carrier, pack a lunch and spend some time in nature. It would also allow your husband to get some exercise.[/quote]

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