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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can someone who is Type A explain why they are so rigid and scheduled and dislike sponteneity?  Why does everything have to be scheduled and planned, why can't they just go with the flow?  I just can't relate to this personality type at all.[/quote]

I've tried being spontaneous with other people and have found that it doesn't work. All those good ideas I come up with spontaneously end up getting wasted because other people already have their own plans or haven't had time to process the idea to actually go through with it. It's not that I dislike spontaneity as much as the fact that I haven't had success with it. The only way I can be spontaneous and actually accomplish anything is with myself and I do enjoy those times.  My husband's family never plans anything because they don't want to deal with a plan that fails and as a result all of the children are still living at home at 25 and 30. They dropped out of college because they couldn't manage their course load, have no idea about their future, and have spent every summer lying around the house. The entire family is continually stuck in intertia and now the children have even become afraid of trying new things. Anything they accomplish is usually the result of some free program that's been made available to them which was planned previously by a Type A person.[/quote]

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