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[quote=Anonymous]Re: what kind of custody. As a divorced mom of a young child, I think whatever keeps the child/parent relationship the most similar is best for the kid. With two involved parents, joint custody works really well (in my experience, even though it can be hard). If he was an involved dad, I would say it might be best for you to have primary, but think how hard it would be to go from having a dad who was really involved to one who you only see every other weekend and Wednesday night. You will not be alone for the rest of your life! It's a normal worry, but it isn't realistic. I agree with those who say that you shouldn't get in a serious relationship soon after leaving (I promised myself that I'd go at least a year from the end of our separation before considering something serious), but I think casual dating can be really good to show you that other people are out there and that you are desirable. Good luck, I know how hard it is.[/quote]
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