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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]it's affecting our sex life[/quote]

Calling BS on this. 
You don't respect him. Not saying if you should of should not. Either change or break up, both of you finding a better match.[/quote]

I can't understand the vile responses on here.

OP - ignore the haters.

I am in the exact same situation.  BF had way too much fun in college and came from a rich family, got bad grades, and now has a crappy job.  He makes no money. I make (I guess) at least 4x what he makes.  Many of his friends were successful, his siblings are successful... and because his parents are retired and he's out of college, they no longer give him a generous allowance..

The sex life is great - but many times, he gets depressed and the sex life suffers.  I suspect that because of the money thing, he feels like less of a man.

I love him, and I'm hoping he figures it out on his own (sooner than later). I don't really have any advice for you, as I also try to be encouraging, but it doesn't seem to help.

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Well my BF doesn't come from a rich family but his parents invested all their money in educating their kids so he went to really good schools growing up. All his friends and fraternity brothers now have good careers and are gearing up to propose to their girlfriends. He says he is too broke to propose and plan a wedding. It's just that everything is coming together in a really frustrating mix.[/quote]

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