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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re not a gold-digger for wanting a guy who is more ambitious.[/quote]

No, I'm not a ge digger. That's such an awful thing to say. I love this guy and want to marry him. It just bugs me because he seems like he is afraid to really put himself out there and know what he wants and get it. He isn't stupid; he has a masters degree from a great program. He is just too intimidated to get out there and figure out a career path that's lucrative. [/quote]

If he isn't asking you for gas money or help with his personal finances, I don't  see the problem with him. He is not as ambitious as you would like but maybe he is happy and lives to make you happy. I agree that you should let him go because you will resent him and he could really be making some woman happy that wants to make him happy. My husband is just like your BF and he makes me over the moon happy. I make my own money so the fact that he makes decent money but less than me doesn't bother me because he helps out with the kids, cooks, cleans, and does everything he can to make my life easier. I will take him every day over the lawyer I dated in my 20s who was a miserable person.[/quote]

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