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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He called off our engagement because he couldn't decide if he wanted to be with me or the OW. He agonized for months over which one of us he wanted to marry. He finally decided on me and six weeks later we were married and I was pregnant. And he tells me now he has doubted this decision all these years.

But he doesn't want to leave. I don't know what to feel. I'm just stunned. He told me this when we were in bed one Saturday morning. We weren't fighting, he said he just wanted to be honest. I told him he of course made the right decision.

I tend to let things just roll over me but this one threw me for a loop. I mean, what does this say about how he really feels about our life together for the past 25 years?
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This long lost GF is carrying all of his unfulfilled hopes and dreams, his long lost youth and potential and the full weight of his mid-life crisis.
He's imagining "what if" because real life is...real, with all of it stressors and disappointments and struggles, and you are part of that real life.
That he would share this with you so bluntly and weep over her FB photo in your presence is pretty pathetic, but the fact that you are still madly in love with him despite this shows that he definitely made the right choice. That he cannot see that is really sad for both of you.[/quote]

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