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[quote=Anonymous]Wow.  Was the other woman begging to marry him?  Were you both his "pre-fiancees" at the same time?  Was he trulu double-dating right up to his engagement?

Wow.  I totally do not relate at all...

But that's neither here nor there (just an interesting tidbit, I guess).

Anyway, I would talk this out.  You can assure him that you love him, but that you're actually very hurt to think that he doesn't love you.  At the very least, he married the person who loved him the MOST, of that you're sure--because no one could love him more than you do (or did).  And that fact might be an indication that he made the right choice after all.

But I'd also tell him that if he's trying to tell you that he doesn't love you anymore, ir he wants to get a divorce, or even if he wants to work  on your relationship, then please just SAY SO rather than engage in this little game.  You don't deserve to have to guess what's going on.  That is disrespectful, even if he already knows he wants out.[/quote]

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