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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just would not be mad about this. At all.

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Pathetic.[/quote]

Why is it pathetic? I also wouldn't be that mad. A woman is already rubbing all over him, what difference does a handjob make? [/quote]

So, then if he got a handjob regularly at a masseuse, you'd be ok with it?  Wow, I'm surprised at how some people think it's NBD.  I think that other PP asking about whether DHs would be ok if the reverse happened had a good point - I really don't think most men would be ok it.  Maybe some of you who think this is nbd would be ok with an open relationship, as well.

I don't necessarily think this issue is divorce worthy, but I also don't think you should just forgive him and move on.  If this happened to me, we would need serious therapy to work it out.[/quote]

I am in a happily open marriage, so perhaps that is why I see this as not a big deal. I know my husband wouldn't care if the situation were reversed, but I think a lot of our friends in monogamous relationships would also not have a huge problem with this. What would bother me, and I think is really the issue with cheating, would be him lying about it. OPs husband fessed up pretty much immediately. I can see being skeeved out at another woman touching him, but I think in the grand scheme of things this is a trivial thing and at least he's not a liar. Proceed with the flaming....[/quote]

DW in a monogamous relationship and I agree with you 100%[/quote]

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