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[quote=Anonymous]This is what I would do...

Since he's cheated before and is trying to patch up the trust issues, I would say, "I know you are working on repairing things between us. But my spidey sense is telling me something is still going on. To help alleviate this, do you mind if I look at your phone/email/FB immediately while you stand here?" If he says, "sure no problem", you still aren't in the clear, since it could be a sign he has just gotten better about hiding things. If he gets shifty and makes excuses as to why you can't, then just walk away and say, "Thanks I have my answer". No fighting, no accusing.
Then watch the condoms. If they are moved, then he can't use the excuse "I didn't know they were there".

Don't fight with him, just tell him to pack his bags. He isn't worth the energy to fight (and it will scare him to see you so calm). If he keeps trying to engage you, just say, "I know more than you think I do" and shut up. See what kind of hole he digs himself.

Good Luck and I'm so sorry you are going through this![/quote]

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